He remembered going down on her with Duke Ellington bobbing in the other room. It was a syncopated sex scene. A big-band sex scene. They talked together about sex. They worried about sex. Moshe told her just to think about what she found sexy. That was his exasperated advice. He said, "What do you think about when you wank? Whaddayawankabout?" Nana looked sheepish. She couldn't say. She said "You." Sadly, this was true.